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Simple Way on How to Construct Yourself and Make Your Own Fate

There is no clear regulations checklist to observe when it comes to developing yourself and your future. Most people think life is foreordained, and fate can’t be altered once it has been written. But the reality is that fate is in your hands and can be adjusted as one wants or desires.

But the question is, how do you make your fate? One has to dream, make an objective, and have your own notion of it. Be innovative and ambitious to create a place in society. It is amusing how when things go amiss, people immediately think that “everything happens for a reason.” They attach tightly to the commonplaces and clichés; to the “Que sera, sera” of it all.

On the other hand, it is too compelling to use the concept of fate as a privilege to stand still and use it as a getaway tool. After all, if “whatever will be will be,” people don’t have to do anything to make it happen. It will just come.


Dreaming is the most critical thing you can do when you set out to create yourself and make your own destiny. Without these yearnings and goals, you’re basically an empty shell, moving along to get along.

Find the Courage to Pursue those Dreams

Once you know precisely the thing that you want, go for it. Find the bravery to take the first step. If your most significant goals feel too far away and out of reach, go after the lesser ones first. Once you make those into reality, you may realize that the significant ones are nearer than you recognized.

Achieve Your Plans

The most helpful way to create your fate is to have daily goals. You should labor on small goals and one big goal. Direct your plans to accomplish daily goals and work a little extra to pursue the bigger dream. Take extra effort by meeting people, writing new ideas, sharing your thoughts, and being ingenious to accomplish your future.

Don’t Let Anyone Judge Your Story

Don’t ever allow anyone to judge your path. They will try. Humans can’t resist the urge to pick apart and study each other under a microscope. Decide now that you will not let their critique hold you back from being who you want to be. Just keep writing your own story.

Make Laughter Part of Your Destiny

A life without delight is not a life at all. So, make sure you are the destiny you create for yourself, including lots and lots of laughter. Find fortes that make you happy and adopt them. Never, ever feel like you have to explain them, either. Never allow anyone to mock something you desire.

Focus on the Good More than the Bad

A large part of yourself means concentrating not on the pain and the bad but on the good. This doesn’t mean you should ignore the things that go wrong or bottle up your emotions. It just means that you try to remember that, more often than not, things do go right. When everything appears to be going wrong, take a minute to remind yourself of all of the things going right.

Be Your Icon of the Story

Use your own two legs to walk your path. You are alone and have what it takes to make your destiny. Don’t let anyone tell and make you feel otherwise. “No one saves us but ourselves. No one can, and no one may. We must walk the path.”

A small part of everyone will always cling to the idea that everything will fall into place one day. And they must give the universe time to catch up with their desires. It’s hard to let go of this beautiful and romantic idea that everything is already written in the stars. 

It is still harder for people to believe that they control their destiny. But everything they are and who they want to be is right inside themselves. So it is imperative to know the spiritual side of yourself, especially the part where you can feel one with your surroundings and the universe, like the notion of universal consciousness in From Childhood to Christhood book by Jocelyne Ranucci. The book deliberately examines some elements of this consciousness and how it can be achieved through personal reflection, soul-searching, and personal growth. 

After all, if people can control it, that means they must control it. People must look within themselves if it’s not out there for people to find. Once you accept that and embrace it, nothing is truly holding you back.

Be Passionate

No matter how difficult this road is, if you are passionate, you will cross it. No hurdle can stop you because the impossible is only found in the dictionary of fools. You are apt to find keys and engrave the path of achievement.

At last, destiny is something that a person creates. You learn from one mistake and work upon it to improve and get enriched. Better and desired results can be achieved by introspecting the situations daily. So, these are the eight key mantras to create your destiny.

  • Posted by  Jocelyne Ranucci
  • life, motivational, self-transformation
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